You've hosted guests who loved the place, and you'd like some of them back without paying a platform fee a second time. Vacation rental email marketing can do that, but only with guests you're actually allowed to email. Most of the common advice skips that part, and on Airbnb it's the part that can cost you your listing.
Your first action today: split your past guests into two groups. Group one booked with you directly (your website, phone, a repeat guest who paid you) and gave you their email. Group two booked through an OTA. Only group one is a marketing list you can build on right now.
Who can you email in vacation rental email marketing?
You can market by email to guests who gave you their address directly, were told how you'd use it, and had a clear way to opt out. Guests whose contact details came through Airbnb aren't a list you can market to.
Airbnb's Off-Platform and Fee Transparency Policy is explicit. It prohibits moving current, future or repeat bookings off Airbnb, offering discounts to book off Airbnb, soliciting a guest's email through Airbnb messaging after a booking, and using guest contact information for marketing or signing guests up for a contact list. The policy says repeated or severe violations can lead to suspended or deactivated listings or accounts.
That rules out the classic playbook of a post-stay email saying "skip Airbnb next time and use code WELCOMEBACK." It breaks several of those rules at once.
The second layer is privacy law. In the UK, the ICO's guidance on electronic mail marketing says you need specific consent for marketing emails, with a limited "soft opt-in" exception for your own customers who bought from you, gave you their details, and were offered an opt-out both at collection and in every message. EU countries apply similar rules under the ePrivacy Directive as implemented nationally, so check your own country's regulator.
| Guest source | Can you add them to a marketing list? | What to do instead |
|---|---|---|
| Booked on Airbnb | No, under Airbnb's off-platform policy | Earn a great review and welcome them back on Airbnb |
| Booked on another OTA | Check that platform's partner terms first | Assume no until the terms say otherwise |
| Booked directly, ticked a marketing opt-in | Yes | Email them, with an unsubscribe link every time |
| Booked directly, no opt-in, offered opt-out | Possibly, under soft opt-in rules where they apply | Confirm the rule in your country before sending |
| Friend, website visitor, bought list | Only with specific consent | Use a signup form with a clear consent line |
Our recommendation: if a row sits in a gray area for you, leave that guest off the list. A list of 40 people who asked to hear from you beats 400 who didn't.
How do you collect guest email addresses without breaking the rules?
Collect emails where guests deal with you directly: your own booking checkout, direct inquiries, and a website signup form, each with a plain consent line and an opt-out. Don't collect them through OTA messaging.
People searching "how to get airbnb guest email" usually want a workaround. There isn't a safe one. Airbnb's policy lets you ask a guest, after booking, to confirm the contact details Airbnb provided are a fine way to reach them during the trip, but that's for the stay, not for a newsletter.
Places where collection does fit:
- Your direct booking checkout. Guests already type their email to book. Add an unticked box: "Send me occasional offers for future stays. Unsubscribe anytime."
- Direct inquiries. When someone emails or calls you first, they've given you the address. Ask before adding them to marketing.
- A signup form on your website. Offer something useful, like a seasonal availability note. If your site gets little traffic, fix that first; see how to get traffic to your direct booking site.
- Printed material in the property, but only where the stay itself came in directly. A QR code aimed at Airbnb guests that promises a discount for booking elsewhere is exactly what the policy prohibits.
Keep a simple record for each address: date, source, and the wording they agreed to. If a regulator or platform ever asks, that record is your answer.
Which emails are worth sending to past guests?
A small vacation rental newsletter needs three to four sends a year: a thank-you after checkout, an early notice before your busy season, and an offer for quiet dates you actually need to fill.
More than that and unsubscribes tend to climb; that's our inference from how people treat inbox volume, not a measured rate. Each send should be useful to someone planning a trip.
The post-stay thank-you (direct guests only). Send it a few days after checkout. Thank them, ask for feedback, and mention that past guests hear about dates first. Every email ends with the unsubscribe link.
Subject: Thanks for staying with us
Hi [first name], thanks for choosing [property name]. If anything could have been better, just reply and tell me. Next spring I'll send past guests a short note before summer dates fill. If you'd rather not hear from me, unsubscribe below.
The early-season notice. Send it a few weeks before your usual booking rush. Name the open dates and link straight to your booking page.
The quiet-dates offer. Only send this when a real gap exists. A specific offer ("three nights for the price of two, 4 to 20 November") works better than a generic discount, and it doesn't train your list to wait for sales.
Is a small guest list worth the effort?
Yes, if even a handful of repeat stays come from it, because each direct stay carries a card processing cost instead of a platform fee. Run your own numbers before deciding how much time to spend.
Consider a hypothetical host with a β¬200-per-night apartment and a 3-night repeat stay (β¬600).
| Line | Via Airbnb, single host fee | Direct, standard EEA card via Stripe |
|---|---|---|
| Fee basis | 15.5% of β¬600 | 1.5% of β¬600 + β¬0.25 |
| Fee | β¬93.00 | β¬9.25 |
| Host keeps | β¬507.00 | β¬590.75 |
The 15.5% rate is what Airbnb says most hosts pay on the single-fee structure; the card rate is from Stripe's Ireland pricing. Your rates may differ by country, card type and fee model. For other channels, check the OTA fee comparison.
So each direct repeat stay in this example keeps about β¬84 more. Now the list math, with assumptions you should replace: 80 opted-in past direct guests, and 3 of them book a repeat stay in a year. That's roughly β¬250 kept that would otherwise go to fees, plus the stays themselves if they wouldn't have happened at all. We can't tell you your repeat rate; track it for a year and decide.
If your email tool costs more per year than the fees you'd save, keep it manual: a plain email from your own inbox to a small list works fine.
When this advice does not apply
- All your bookings come through Airbnb: you have no marketing list yet. Put your effort into reviews, and into a direct booking site for future guests who find you independently.
- Other countries' rules: consent and soft opt-in rules vary. The ICO guidance covers the UK; confirm the rule where you and your guests are.
- Other OTAs: read each platform's partner terms on guest data before using any contact details they share.
What to do next
- Sort past guests into direct and OTA groups, and delete any OTA-sourced addresses from marketing tools.
- Add an unticked marketing opt-in to your direct checkout and inquiry replies.
- Write the three emails above, each with an unsubscribe link.
- Put your quiet dates on a calendar and send the offer only when a real gap appears.
- Track direct repeat stays for twelve months, then decide whether the list deserves more time.
FAQ
Can I do email marketing for Airbnb guests?
Not with contact details you got through Airbnb. Its off-platform policy prohibits using guest contact information for marketing, signing guests up for contact lists, and moving repeat bookings off Airbnb.
What is an Airbnb guest email address used for?
For communication about the stay. Airbnb's policy allows you to confirm after booking that the contact details it provided are a suitable way to reach the guest during the trip, not to market to them later.
How do I encourage Airbnb repeat guests?
Keep them on Airbnb. Deliver a good stay, earn a strong review, and let returning guests rebook through the platform. For your broader direct strategy, see why you need a direct booking website.
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Sources
- Airbnb, "Off-Platform and Fee Transparency Policy" β Verified 2026-09-30
- UK Information Commissioner's Office, "Electronic mail marketing" β Verified 2026-09-30
- Airbnb, "Airbnb service fees" β Verified 2026-09-30
- Stripe, "Pricing & fees" (Ireland) β Verified 2026-09-30
- BookBed, "Pricing" (public/pricing.md) β Verified 2026-09-30
